Wednesday, February 23, 2005
something about loving a girl.. so sweet... source: Alicia's bulletin board posting in friendsterLove the girl in your heart, not in your mind.
If you base your relationship on feelings, it will fail for there are ups & downs in feelings. Girls are there to be loved, not toyed around. Love her for who she is. She's special & she will stay that way. Don't substitute her for anyone else, they are just unique in their own ways.
Love her whole-heartedly. She sacrificed a lot for you so you'd better really treasure her. She could have just got up & date so much more dashing guy in town but she chose you instead all because of love. So love her, not play with her.
If you're with her, love her. Don't cause a strain in the relationship, you'll end up loving each other out of pity or charity, that's not respecting love at all. Respect love the way it is & everything will be the best it can be. I've been there & I know how it feels. Like another girl while you're in a relationship? Then I think it's time you remain single for a while. Don't go around breaking girls' hearts, it's the most tragic thing to do.
Tell the truth, never hide anything from her. If you want her to tell you everything, do the same. Don't go calling other girls "honey" or "darling", how would it feel if your girl calls other guys the same way? Be faithful, enough is enough. Get it over when she's already yours, don't ask for more. It never kills to be romantic. Think, be flexible. Getting that diamond ring isn't the only gift for her. Be realistic, she's human & she lives life just like you. Something sweet & simple always get the job done.
Money doesn't exist between couples, it's the love. Never promise her that you'll love her forever because your forever might end the next day. Love her as if each day is the last. Remember, INSECURITY. Promise her & make sure you never break it. Loving her is giving her your heart to break it but trusting her not to. Instead, she'll cherish it & protect it. That's love.
Winning a girl's heart isn't the final victory. Don't leave her once you've won her love. If it's her heart that you've broken, how would you ever know how she feels? She chose you because she believes that you can fulfil your promise. Win her heart & love her over.
Remember, a girl isn't a trophy for display, she's someone to love, not to show off to your "friends". Stay humble yet proud that she's the one for you. Respect her for the way she is never mistreat her, never even think of toying with her...
si Monyet @ 2/23/2005 08:07:00 PM
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